Sunday, April 26, 2026

Family Help on the Nick of Time

 


Many years ago, when I was training for Triathlons, I would frequent the local YMCA to get in my swim training.  There I often bumped into an older gentleman (over 80) and we would exchange the usual morning pleasantries.  When asked how he was doing he would smile and say “Better than yesterday, not as good as tomorrow”.   I love the optimism of that saying and use it on an occasional basis as a reminder despite life’s challenges I’m still on the right side of grass.  It was with that optimism that I approach this year’s Marathon challenge,

 The weather was perfect when we started out in the run,  “We” included 5 of my grandchildren {ages 9-15), my daughters, and son in law.  Pam and my 5 year old granddaughter manned the water station and cheered us on.   Our combined goal was to run a full marathon plus an additional mile for each year Nick has been gone (46,2 miles).   The running was challenging (for me anyway) but the shared stories, good natured teasing and support made the effort more enjoyable.  I continue to be amazed by everyone’s willingness and ability to pitch in to support me and Help in the Nick of Time.   With their help we were able to complete the challenge.   I’m truly blessed.

 

Thank you to all who have donated.  There’d still time if you haven’t donated yet.  100% of funds raised go to helping children with cancer and their families.  This is also a good time to give everyone who supports the effort a brief peak into how Help in the Nick of Time has impacted children and their families.   Here are a few examples.

 

Thank you for sending my daughter and I special gifts from your Good Boxes...As you can see from the pictures Mary was very excited to receive her special gifts. Thank you for the gift of experiencing her pure joy.

 

 

 

In 2011, at just three years old, Malia was diagnosed with stage 4, high-risk neuroblastoma. She had been doing well until 2021, when she relapsed and quickly resumed treatment. Sadly, Malia passed away in June 2023. During her final days, we were able to support her family by assisting with medical and insurance expenses through the Never Alone Fund, allowing them to focus on being by Malia’s side. While Malia's family continues to grapple with this immense loss, they are channeling their energy into honoring her memory.

 

Myah Viens was diagnosed in April 2022 with Neuroblastoma,and her mom, Stacy, has been struggling to provide for Myah and her twin brother Leo ever since. Myah’s child life specialist reached out to One Mission in September of 2024, asking for any kind of help we might be able to provide. The Viens have been having trouble with their car, which is crucial to getting Myah to and from her medical appointments, and the repairs had caused Stacy to fall behind on medical and other crucial household bills. Help in the Nick of Time covered car payments to help get back on financial footing.

 

 

 

THE PARK/LIAU FAMILY

We fulfilled a Junior Good Box for 14-year-old Peter Liau in the Fall

of 2024. Peter’s mom, Jessica, sent an email thanking us for this care

package, and explained that the family had recently lost all their

possessions in a house fire. Everything that we included in the Junior

Good Box was now all that Peter owned. The family is having their

home rebuilt but will need to start from scratch, purchasing all new

items to fill their house once renovations are complete.

 

 

 

 

Saturday, April 4, 2026

Blessings

 

Given it is Easter and Passover this week I figured it was a good time for me to count my blessings, and I have plenty. A wonderful wife three successful and loving children, 9 healthy and brilliant grandchildren and a comfortable life (needless to say, neither Parkinson’s nor leukemia made the list).   I truly have had a blessed life.   

 I count still being able to run and help families fighting pediatric cancer among my blessings.  I love being able to run I just hate running.  I know that sounds crazy and it’s not exactly true It’s just that some days it seems the world is aligned against my efforts to run.  I had a day like that this week.  The weather was cold and drizzly and my Parkinson’s was raging.  My body was stiffer than a two by 4 and my hands were trembling so much it took five minutes to tie my shoes.   Despite the challenges I was still able to get out and do a poor imitation of running.  It wasn’t pretty and it was exceedingly slow (I was passed by a woman pushing a stroller) but some days it’s just about getting out the door.    A bunch of years ago in my running arrogance I wrote in my blog that anybody could run a marathon, it’s just a matter of training.   I am now a testimonial on how delusionally wrong I was.   Running with Parkinson’s is a humbling experience. 

 OK, that’s enough moaning.  As I mentioned earlier I have a blessed life and giving back through Help in the Nick of Time is a privilege that adds to my blessing.   Some days I just need to remind myself, being able to run, in any capacity, to help others, is a blessing and a gift.

 The Marathon Challenge this year will again be a family team effort.   Running with my children, their spouse, and many of my grandchildren is incredibly rewarding and knowing we are helping others adds to the experience.   For families dealing with pediatric cancer your support through Help in the Nick of Time can be a timely blessing for them.  Sometimes blessing are life challenges you don’t have to face.